Flaubert and Caillebotte

While reading Michel Winock’s biography of Flaubert (Gallimard, 2013), I came across these reflections:

The trip Flaubert undertook in Brittany with his friend Du Camp proves that, when he wanted to free himself from his mother’s control, Gustave did so – even though, during this journey of more than three months, Mme Flaubert, accompanied by her granddaughter and a nurse, came to spend a few days with the travelers in Brest.

To Louise Colet, this trip was both a confession and a betrayal. But might not Flaubert’s taste for friendship, even intimacy, with young men (yesterday Le Poittevin, today Du Camp, soon Bouilhet) point to a homosexual tendency?

It is true that, in his youthful correspondence and later still – during his journey to the Orient – Flaubert alludes to homosexual experiences.

In the imagined confession of Louise Colet, created by Julian Barnes in Flaubert’s Parrot, Louise speaks of Du Camp – perhaps out of spite – as Gustave’s ‘ambitious favorite.’ We also know that, by mutual agreement, Flaubert and Du Camp burned most of their early correspondence, which might have compromised them.So? What is certain is that Flaubert, like most men of his time, preferred male company: separation of the sexes was the rule, and school habits created complicities among young men where sex no doubt played a part, but more often in the form of bawdy stories, pornographic jokes, or gossip about exploits in brothels.

And this:

Several passages from letters to Bouilhet once again raise the question of Flaubert’s homosexuality. He recounts that in Egypt sodomy is a ‘fashionable’ practice, everyone speaks of it as something natural. It takes place in the baths, for ‘all the bath attendants are catamites.’

Flaubert confides that he wants to try it, and in a letter of June 2, 1850, he informs Bouilhet: ‘You ask me if I have consummated the affair of the baths. Yes, with a strapping fellow pockmarked from smallpox, wearing a huge white turban. It only made me laugh, that’s all. But I’ll do it again. For an experiment to be valid, it must be repeated.’

This experience has sometimes led to conclusions about Flaubert’s homosexuality – but that is a rather short step. In his earlier correspondence, going far back into his youth, one finds phrases that might lead one to think so, as in letters from Alfred Le Poittevin: ‘I’ll come see you Monday without fail, around 1 o’clock. Are you hard?’ – ‘Goodbye, old pederast!’ – ‘I kiss your Priapus’ – ‘Goodbye, dear old friend, I kiss you while Socratizing you.’

Sartre gave his opinion on this: ‘It seems to me that the epistolary use of these “turns of phrase” makes it clear they did not refer to any actual practice.’ We are in the register of ‘joking,’ he writes, not without reminding us – Flaubert himself wrote to Louise Colet – that at the time of his friendship with Alfred he was ‘reputed to be a pederast’ (September 18, 1852).

Jacques-Louis Douchin adds: ‘Homosexuality? No. Pederasty? Yes, but only at a certain time and under specific circumstances. […] It was during his journey to the Orient that Flaubert was initiated into pederasty, and in my opinion purely out of curiosity, and also “to do as everyone else did.” Curiosity, amusement, a taste for the picturesque and for local color explain Flaubert’s behavior – “and that’s all,” as he himself wrote. His “ethnological” curiosity knew no bounds.’

The supposed homosexuality of Flaubert does not convince me. There is no latent homosexuality in his books. The situation with Caillebotte is quite different. After visiting the exhibition devoted to him in Chicago last July, I discovered Amaury Chardeau’s book Caillebotte: Painting Is a Serious Game (Norma éditions, 2024), published both in French and English. It is an excellent presentation of his life and work. It includes the astonishing photograph of Caillebotte in his late teens, posing in a woman’s dress with a wig.

Gustave Caillebotte in his late teens

We know very little about Caillebotte’s intimate life, and many of his personal papers were destroyed after his death by his sister-in-law. Charlotte is a constant and mysterious presence in Caillebotte’s life starting in the early 1880s. She lived with him until his death and he left her a house and a pension in his will. Amaury Chardeau:

Even while Charlotte was still alive, her disappearance had already begun… As on that day when Martial, visiting Petit-Gennevilliers with his camera, captured the image of his brother sitting on the garden bench. In the two small ‘carte de visite’ – sized photographs kept in the family album, one sees the painter, looking tired, Charlotte’s little dog on his lap, and a woman’s hat beside him. But of Charlotte herself, no trace. Looking closely at the photos, one notices a crude montage: her presence, to the painter’s right, has been cut away, leaving only her accessories and a scrap of dress behind her companion’s leg, floating like a specter.

This erasure seems singularly brutal.

The probable conservatism of a sister-in-law and this silence have, moreover, produced a paradoxical result: the emergence, in American academic circles in the 2000s, of the hypothesis of a homosexual Caillebotte.

It is true that all his life, Gustave was surrounded mainly by men. From his brothers, his schoolboy years, his comrades-in-arms during the war of 1870, his artistic friendships among the Impressionists, or among fellow rowers, he was a man among men. This male overrepresentation is mechanically reflected in his work, where men appear four times more often than women.However, apart from the undeniable eroticism of the spectacular Man at His Bath or the playful gender-bending of his student cross-dressing, no archival evidence seriously supports the hypothesis of a lived or repressed homosexuality.

So, what remains is his work itself. And that work radiates an obvious homoeroticism – for those who are sensitive to it. See the essay by André Dombrowski and Jonathan D. Katz in the catalogue of the exhibition, if you need to be convinced.

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Random Links

Donald Trump’s Big Gay Government: On the town with the A-Gays of Washington, who have never been happier to be out, proud and Republican (The New York Times).

Florida Paints Over Rainbow Memorial for Victims of Pulse Nightclub Shooting (The New York Times):

‘A Single Man,’ a Classic Gay Novel, Becomes a Ballet: Artists including the musician John Grant have collaborated to find feelings beyond the words of Christopher Isherwood’s 1964 book. Occasionally, they succeed (The New York Times).

A New ‘Billy Budd’ Is a Pressure Cooker of Gay Desire: An adaptation of the Benjamin Britten opera, in turn based on Melville’s classic novella, joins a lineage of beautiful enigmas (The New York Times).

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From Gregory to Gloria: How DEI Shapes the Remembrance of a Hemingway

From the class composite of the University of Miami School of Medicine, Class of 1964

A surprising detail appeared in the recent New York Times obituary of Patrick Hemingway, Ernest Hemingway’s last surviving son, who died at the age of 97. The article referred to his sibling this way:

Hemingway’s third child, Gloria Hemingway, was a physician who struggled with alcohol abuse. She wrote a memoir, “Papa” (1976), before undergoing transition surgery later in life. She died in 2001.

That portrayal is strikingly different from the obituary the paper published at the time of his death in 2001, under the headline “Gregory H. Hemingway, 69; Wrote a Memoir Called ‘Papa’.

Back then, the Times emphasized Gregory Hemingway’s medical career and his battles with alcohol and emotional problems. It noted that he had been married four times, that he was arrested in Florida for indecent exposure and resisting arrest, and that he was found dead in a women’s detention center. The obituary added that, according to news reports, he often dressed as a woman, was known among some friends as Gloria, and had undergone a sex-change operation.

The contrast between the two obituaries is telling—and a little confusing. Gregory Hemingway’s complicated life, including its end, is recounted in detail in Paul Hendrickson’s excellent book Hemingway’s Boat (Vintage, 2012). I don’t remember reading that he had had a sex-change operation. Being away from my library, I asked ChatGPT:

Gregory (1931–2001), the youngest son of Ernest Hemingway, spent much of life struggling both with alcoholism and with gender identity. Later in life, Gregory began living at times as a woman under the name Gloria Hemingway, sometimes describing herself as a transsexual. She took gender-affirming hormones and, according to some accounts, pursued or at least considered surgery. Yet her identity remained complex and ambivalent: she alternated between living as a man and as a woman, never fitting neatly into a single narrative.

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A new biography of C. P. Cavafy

Constantine Cavafy: A New Biography (G. Jusdanis and P. Jeffreys, Farrar, Straus and Giroux, 2025) has been released recently. Its review in the TLS starts with:

Constantine Petrou Cavafy (1863–1933): a poet of obscure history and an eroticism so gentle, it seems odd to call it eroticism at all. A civil servant in the irrigation department of the city of Alexandria. A descendant of an aristocratic family that lost its way. A gay man in a cosmopolitan city away from the cultural centres of the world. The last surviving son of Constantinopolitan immigrants. A teenage refugee from the Anglo-Egyptian War. The most important Greek-language poet of the twentieth century. A major literary figure – an influence on writers around the world, and available in so many languages and editions that it is hard to keep up.

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Queer Lives : Joseph Lovett, 1945-2025

The New York Times, in an obituary published last week, Joseph Lovett, TV Producer Who Shed an Early Light on AIDS, Dies at 80, writes:

As an openly gay producer, Mr. Lovett was a rarity in the broadcast news world of the 1970s and ’80s. Working at CBS and ABC, he pursued news segments aimed at destigmatizing gay life in the United States and drawing attention to the AIDS crisis at a time when that subject was largely overlooked by mainstream news organizations.

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Paul Yonnet on Gide

From Zone de mort, Stock, 2017 (not translated) :

This book of correspondence ends with an excerpt from Paul Valéry’s Notebook 24. In it, he noted down a conversation he had just had with André Gide, in 1925. Gide, who was fifty-six years old, confessed everything to him. “I had been ignorant of his life and his habits until quite recently, which shows how blind I was,” Valéry remarks, before continuing: “He then told me—that all the feeling he had ever had was for his wife. He had never mixed the slightest bit of intellect with his senses. Any intervention of the mind cooled him. But as for the senses—complete debauchery. He had tried everything and still continued. He insisted on that word.”

Here Gide laid out his so-called thesis of “uranism,” based on the separation and rupture between love and sexual need. Love is platonic; sexual need is of the flesh, devoid of feeling. He lies. He knows he is lying to himself. His affair with the young Marc Allégret in 1917 was both love and sex, sentimental and carnal. Discovered by his wife when the “couple” left for England, the idyll led to the destruction—in tears and by fire—of thousands of letters Gide had written to Madeleine, which he regarded as the best part of his work. Madeleine, the writer’s first cousin, virgin and martyr, then sank into sorrow. She could be seen, in Cuverville, advancing with the small, shuffling step of life’s defeated, distributing food to stray cats.

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Queer Lives: Gilles Dowek, 1966-2025

The brilliant mathematician and computer scientist, an alumnus of the École Polytechnique, died of cancer in Paris on July 21, 2025, at the age of 58. In 2007, he published a fascinating short book on the history of mathematics: The Metamorphoses of Calculation (Le Pommier):

Le Carnet du Monde
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An Art-Filled Weekend in Chicago 

Despite the ridiculous name change (Painting His World) – to make it more “inclusive” according to the Chicago curator Gloria Groom, I enjoyed the Caillebotte exhibition at the Art Institute (Painting Men). The focus and commentary beside the works remain true to the original intent, and the catalogue is the same as the one printed when the show was first presented in Los Angeles:

All of Caillebotte’s greatest paintings are there, in a setting much less crowded than that of the Musée d’Orsay, which I visited in December:

The First Homosexuals: The Birth of a New Identity (1869–1939) at Wrightwood 659 is not as strong as its catalogue. The welcome is charming, though. Of course, the most impressive work from the late 19th century – L’Homme au bain (1884) – while referenced in the catalogue, is not on display, as it is at the Art Institute. The show does, however, offer the opportunity to discover Konstantin Somov (1869–1939), whose life spans the period under examination:

Although, according to Wikipedia, Jacques-Émile Blanche’s homosexuality was well known in Parisian society during his lifetime, I only became aware of it when I discovered his Self-Portrait with the Spanish Painter Rafael de Ochoa (1890), painted two years before his famous portrait of the 21-year-old Marcel Proust:

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Random Links 

How ‘Gay’ Became an Identity in Art: Two groundbreaking exhibitions in Chicago explore the shift in portrayals of same-sex attraction. They are being staged at a fraught moment. (New York Times)

How a Times Reporter Eluded a Ban on the Word ‘Gay’ (New York Times)

Hegseth announces new name of US navy ship that honored gay rights icon Harvey Milk (The Guardian)

How the Gay Rights Movement Radicalized, and Lost Its Way by Andrew Sullivan (New York Times)

Is Donald Trump an Antagonist or a Champion of the Gay Community? (New York Times)

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Cabinet secret

St Sebastian, Guido Reni, c. 1615, Musei di Strada Nuova, Genoa

D’où la possibilité qui t’est donnée de te constituer dans chaque musée que tu visites ton cabinet secret personnel, accessible à tous, mais où nul à part toi et quelques privilégiés ne sait qu’il est entré.
Un savoir gai, William Marx, Minuit, 2018

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